The Holy Trinity

Since this is the week after Mother's Day, I thought I'd speak about this concept I KNOW to be true, but a lot of folks don't know. There is a special spiritual relationship that is shared between yourself, your mother and your grandmother. If you disrespect anyone in the trilogy going up... You will have done negative witchcraft to yourself. Conversely, blessing anyone in the trilogy going up will grant you a bigger blessing.

Interested? Let's go.

Women are portals. Human Life enters via that portal. No matter what folks tell you, you weren't born alone. Your mother was there. My mom used to say to my brother and I, "Y'all ain't never been alone. Even when you were born, I was there. And I did all the heavy lifting at that." Mommie insisted on thank you cards from us on our birthdays. Typical Leo energy. But she was right. When your mother was born, your grandmother was there as well as you and all your siblings. That's actual science. I don't have to explain the mother and child thing. That's obvious. But women are born with all the eggs they will ever have. Born with them! You are one of them as are all your siblings through her. So at the moment your mom became a sentient being, you and your grandmother were present. Doesn't work the same with fathers. Spermatozoa are created on demand. So even though men have a necessary role in the conception, that's really it for them. I've often wondered if that's men can so easily walk away from their children (don't hit me with the not all men or women leave too. be grown here). And tell the truth, those of you with siblings with different fathers, you feel closer to the ones you share your mom with. Ya'll were egg buddies!

So where does the Blessing enter? By blessing your mom or grandmother, you will receive a larger blessing. Simple as that. Send your mom flowers for no reason and watch the blessings roll in. Go to church with your grandma, watch the blessings pop off. No reason is key. Sending gifts during a gift giving time will negate the effects. But conversely, hitting, stealing from, making nasty comments to either will block TF out of your blessings and bad luck will follow. It is just that simple.

My mother and grandmother, both had children late in life. My grandparents were born in the first decade of the 1900's. We didn't live close to my grandmother either. Approximately 1000 miles separated us. So I only saw her twice a year. We spoke on Sundays though. I decided as a youngster that I wanted her to be my pen pal. So, I started writing her letters. And she wrote back. One of the ways we realized she was developing dementia was the letters got weird, then stopped coming at all. All of a sudden, my little life improved. I was shy child with few friends. But after writing my grandmother people became more interested in me. It was a childhood glow up. And it's not that she gave me any advice. But clearly us communicating like we had blessed her. In turn, I was blessed. In my adult life, when I needed a little oomph to get me over a hump, I would do something nice for my mother. Not always anything super expensive (but sometimes) like getting her the ice cream she liked. Introducing her to something she hadn't tried before. Spending time with her. always came with a boost. And it was pleasant. My mom could be so funny at times.

Another example.... My first/late husband adored his mother. He was a man that wasn't ashamed to have and express feelings. One day he was in a mood and snapped at his mother. NGL... that lady was sugar diabetes sweet. He was just in a mood. Well... his car got towed, his check didn't come on time and gout kicked in. When he realized what was going on, he sincerely apologized and took my car to take her to brunch. The impound admitted they towed the wrong car; his check came through with a little interest and the gout went away.

I do know that everyone doesn't get along with their mothers. Not all Mommies are pleasant. But don't be disrespectful to her. Just quietly choose to not engage. QUIETLY. That goes a long way.

If you're adopted, then this won't work for you. Sorry.....